My daughter just turned 13 and I just discovered some naked picturesof her self? - picturesof discovered
I am very disappointed and sad, I began my first daughter, by a vocabulary foul on AIM, I speak a little scared, but thought I could handle, only with him. Yesterday I decided to read their telephone messages and explicit images, 3 found, she sent a friend (male) at that time was not even her boyfriend. I decided to talk to him calmly and ask him about this without being spectacular, of course, she was very ill and was initially refused, until I told him I saw the pictures, then I said 'm sorry, Mom, I want to .. change. . But I was terribly depressed and disappointed. Sutdent legal member of Rogate, very athletic and seems very intelligent, always, where they went, very mature ... Why would someone like her, and how I can help them understand that what he did was wrong, she also knew that the pictures, and if written in the wrong direction can lead to someone losing his job the same work and reputation, pls help
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Picturesof Discovered My Daughter Just Turned 13 And I Just Discovered Some Naked Picturesof Her Self?
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It's time to howl the reins. It is time for the mother of this child, not his friend.
No cell phone. No computer. This should be in force months for at least 3. Relax yourself, it will prove to you that they are responsible with them.
Must then be based. This does not mean anything, but the school and (perhaps if) the sport on a computer. House No friends. There is no shopping mall. NOTHING.
Not only sending nude photos, even at the highest available. If u think it's just a lie, you're wrong. She is intelligent. Smart children, who may lie away with him a long, long time. It is only to be discovered. God, I thank you, before there was nothing irreversible has happened.
You must understand that their behavior is totally unacceptable and have serious consequences for him. As the "serious" consequences of the detention and deportation or privileges they had a child at age 14.
After that, your daughter will respond to therapy. SOON. Recognize thatr therapists who enjoy at least some joint meetings held.
Do not miss it. It's only a boy of 13 years for sending nude photos of himself. She has no idea where that might lead a. You might say, but they did not have the cognitive ability to cooperate. The children are just not as far in advance. You can say that, but it does itself not as a threat.
It is also necessary that the parents of the boy she sent pictures to both the problem. Although guess a "," my suspicion that they have asked and she accepted. This is the foot, to be done to, to know it can be. Their parents have no idea.
Again, not fall into the "Just Be Friends," "trust her", "his privacy" is nonsense. It is a child involved in a serious risk behavior. She takes the keys from you. If you blow too, and take into account this is no big deal.
And I assure youIt is a big problem.
When his mother and be strong enough to contain the consequences of cell phone nude photos before the grandchildren question.
Wait,
~ M ~
How much time do you spend with him every day ... There is something in his life has to do for them, things changed! !
She just turned 13 years left to rebel a little!
Remember, when you reach 15
So this is perhaps 16-18 ..
You can invest in a router for Internet filtering. They act as a firewall between the Internet (cable modem or DSL) and computer. You can choose to filter the AIM and what sites they can access.
After not with a camera phone.
Do not panic not accompany me.
If it just a student, she has great potential. If it were my daughter, I would greatly limit his time on the computer and cell phone, even if not completely eliminated.
(In fact, when I was a girl, I locked myself into his arms and would not let her date until she was or something, forty something ... but that is the perspective of a man about it ...)
The technology we have today is certainly beautiful, but it also has disadvantages. You're right - we can certainly find someone in distress. But to be like everything else, used wisely and in moderation is important.
Love Jack
Is not it a bit exaggerated? I think that in 13 years, and this may be a single event.
to talk about it like your life is already over.
not so stupid, so they will learn from this knowledge,
and what it will check your phone messages?
do not be rude or anything, but not the private lives?
without interfering mother?
Or maybe it's puberty, you never know?
or perhaps to rebel against you ... Never thought
b / c is a straight student and blah blah blah blah.
We have decided to speak in a calm manner, without drama react, how often, when something that you do not like?
Convidence think there should be a little more about her daughter, hoping that this one last time
I think you might need to get your daughter in counseling, and I dare say that you probably go to some training classes. Something is broken anywhere. It is necessary to strengthen the rule. She is only 13, still a child, no matter what it seems. She is an adult. Do not treat it as such.
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